Kellie Geisel

It’s a common belief amongst college women that in order to be fun and flirty, alcohol is the answer.  Ladies, I can tell you right now that this is not that case!  Alcohol is actually the enemy.  Yes, a few drinks is fine with your friends, but as you get older, having a few drinks just to get tipsy or perhaps even to get drunk is not what your soul mate wants.  It looks sloppy, and can often lead to regrettable situations.  No one is interested in a relationship with the person they take home from the bar.  Rather, they’re interested in the new friend they met at the gym who leads a healthy and positive lifestyle.  You absolutely do not need a drink to have fun and be flirty! 

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Here are my four tips to be fun, flirty, and thriving without being influenced by alcohol:

1) Stay active!

One of the best things you can do to enjoy life without drinking is to stay active!  Gather a group of friends, go for a hike, go to the gym, and remind yourself that you can’t drink alcohol to have fun doing these things.  A potential partner can begin to see the true beauty of someone when they aren’t sloppily throwing back a few. 

2) Go to concerts! 

One of my favorite places to meet people is at concerts.  Most people want to enjoy the concert and that requires not getting wasted.  People want to hear the music that they paid to hear.  Going to a concert and not drinking doesn’t mean you can’t have just as much fun as the next person.  I guarantee that somewhere in the crowd, there’s a designated driver who is perhaps searching for someone to connect with during the evening.  

3) Stick with sober people!

Even at other social events, I recommend you stick with other sober people.  I’m sure there’s a sober cutie roaming around somewhere.  Every event is only as fun as you make it, so make it a lifestyle to be positive and happy in every situation and being fun and flirty will come naturally to you.

4) Focus on friendship!

One of the last and most important things to remember is how to have fun and be flirty in romantic atmospheres.  Fact: it is possible to enjoy someone’s company without obscuring your mind with alcohol.  Instead, suggest dates that involve more than just watching movies on the couch.  Go out and do things that require you and your partner to work together.  Bowling, paintball, white water rafting, hiking, whatever it may be, your significant other will more easily see the true beauty inside you without alcohol being the reason.  After all, a relationship based on friendship is the best kind.   

In the end ladies, it is possible to have fun and flirt without having a drink. 

 

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